We started officially "potty training" {guess you could call it that...we've done infant potty training known as EC since he was a baby so we really only have to make the final leap into undies} last week. E just started insisting on 'unders' {that's what he called them before he could say 'underwear' and it's kinda just stuck} and even though I was super hesitant, I just went with it. Day One left us with only two successes with lots of wet pants and unders. The following two days I did more prompting, about every hour, and we only had one miss each. Day four had three. That was the day Papa was home and he's still learning our new rhythm. It wasn't until mid-morning on Day Five when we got one success and then we were good for the day. Day Six and on made for zero misses including nap time!!! I'm SO proud of him!
I have to prompt him every time, but it seems like he's holding it until he's sitting on the potty now. Yesterday was the first day I felt like I could relax and not stress about him peeing at any moment. We had re-gained the rhythm that we lost over the weekend. It just seemed more fluid {no pun intended, ha.} and that the trips to the bathroom were a normal part of our day now. He's doing so great. I don't buy the the whole "did-it-in-three-days-and-we're-completely-done" thing. Maybe unless your kid is like five?! Or maybe a girl?? We're definitely not finished with training. On Day Five I buckled and put him in a diaper when we did a sandwich lunch date with a friend. The whole time it felt so wrong. Like I was giving in to my frustration instead of staying committed, sticking it out, and not giving up on him. He stayed dry though and when we got home, I put him back in unders...after an encouraging conversation with my mom on the phone. Heh.
I figure as he continues, he'll eventually prompt himself. We're still doing diapers at night, although Ezra's not too happy about that. I value my sleep too much than to change bedding at night. We told him that if he has a dry diaper in the morning then he can earn unders at night. I found him on his stool this morning, trying to zip down his pjs to go potty. It's so adorable-- he's even more of a little man now.
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And the unders have also encouraged putting on his own clothes, especially his unders and pants. He now pulls out all of his clean underwear and mulls over them a good five minutes before selecting which he'll sport that day... the Thomas trains? the Lightening McQueen cars? the extra padded solids? I'm thankful for elastic bottoms. It helps him to be more independent-- when he can do it all himself. All I have to do is suggest potty time and he's off on his own in the bathroom. So so so so nice! :) It's like I'm catching small glimpses of what it's like to have a little one beyond the toddler years and into childhood.
So, you will probably be able to spot us now around town, carting his little potty with us. It's been real handy for keeping mobile as he trains. And it saves us trips to the public ones {eww! gross!} We even had a 'potty party' this week with Ezra's friend, Elle, who's three. We were at a park without bathrooms and well, when you got to go, you've gotta go. They were so cute-- cheering each other on and checking out their different undies.
Here's to yet another parenting milestone!