1. I am important to our marriage because...
2. What I contribute to my partner's success is...
3. I feel central to our relationship when...
4. I feel peripheral to our relationship when...
5. The ways I have fun with you are...
6. The way I get space for myself in our relationship is...
7. The ways I am intimate with you are...
8. The role I play as your wife/husband is...
9. I feel most feminine/masculine in our relationship when..
10. I deal with stress by...
11. I feel most loved when you...
12. Though you may or may not know it, I'm showing you my love when I...
13. How we spend our spare time is determined by...
14. Our social life is planned by...
15. I need you to...
**These questions come from Dr. Les & Leslie Parrott's Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts Workbook