Showing posts with label challenge. Show all posts
Showing posts with label challenge. Show all posts

Saturday, May 11

What A Week

....playdate ending in a doctor visit because a big boy wasn't watching where he was running and mowed over his sweet friend.

...protested naps.

....trying to aggressively pay of Vesper's birth and accidentally paying another bill early, resulting in an overdrawn bank account.

...for the past three days, an infant who will only settle into sleep when nursing and being held. 

...toddler who climbs out of his crib during nap time.

....roofers and a jack-hammer making a loud chorus outside--perhaps encouraging the previous two problems.

Downright stressful.

Last week certainly had a huge helping of challenges. There were some sweet moments in it too; including some "just because flowers" and fun days outside. 

 I've survived through encouraging girlfriends who challenge me to go to the cross and to draw my strength from Him. A husband that lets me sneak out for solo runs during our couch to 5k family edition. And grandparents who love their gparent day, coffee and some sunshine.




Monday, January 16

Stomach Flu {Longest Week of My Life}

Got it on Tuesday. And it was gnarly. Seriously put me under for the rest of the week.

My mom took E the following day and I seriously didn't leave my bed except to change Theo's diaper and to replenish my drinks. 

My only company:
Half on me was so worried that he'd get it but the other half half really enjoyed the snuggles. It was wonderful to sleep, rest, and have quiet.

A girlfriend made us dinner, brought it over and took the pups out before leaving. Seriously, heaven-sent. My mom brought Ezra back right before bed. She took Theo then bathed E and got him ready for bed right as W was getting home. Baton pass. W takes over. I hadn't moved from bed. I was so tired and weak.

I somehow make it through the next day without help. Although all I wanted to do was to crawl back into bed. I found out E has a superpower. My toddler's superpower? Sensing Mama's weakness and taking advantage. We needed intervention, but I didn't want it to be in the form of the boob-tube. So by Friday afternoon, I'm calling my parents and carting all three of us over until W finishes up at work. It was also the first day I could finally get three whole meals inside my stomach and get myself dressed.

It's been at least five years since I've had something like this. Not pretty with two kids who still need a lot from Mama. What a start to the year and to W's busy season. Yeesh.

Tuesday, September 13

R & R Update

Pregnancy--- can totally do it

Birth-- sure, it's hard work, but I can do that too

Recovery-- I'd rather poke my eyes out and walk across burning coals

I've never been a good rester or recover-er. Just ask my mom and she'll bust out with, "You're just like your father!" It is so hard to just rest and do nothing. I just long for normalcy again and I miss my guys.

I have tried really hard this time around to truly rest and recover from birth. I think I'm doing fairly well. But after two kids, I'm realizing that nursing does not come naturally for me, or at least it's been a battle to establish while in recovery. Granted, with E, I took me a good month and a half of stressful labor and dedication to make nursing easy. This time around it was only a week--but it stilled seemed like eternity! Eternity in the breastfeeding trench: mastitis {again}, fever between 103 and 104, low supply, blood blisters, cracks, tears, scabs, soreness, sharp pain...well, you get the point. 

Enter God's grace: La Leche League

We had a leader come to our house. She spent 2 hours with me just working on our latch. I also went to a drop in session and a local meeting; all in an effort to get a good solid, pain-free latch. And I'm happy to report that we got a good latch, I'm not skittish about each feeding and the pain I'll be in, and what once took a good hour to get a full feeding in, is starting to take 40 minutes or less. And I've learned so much about breastfeeding in the process; much of what I'd heard before, just needed the reminder.

Guess something along the whole baby-making process had to take work and sacrifice to make it happen.

Everything else about recovery has been going super well. I don't feel exhausted, just tired. I try to nap everyday while W is still home and make short trips outdoors. Today, we took our walk to the library. 

So, we're all still here! Just needed some extra time to rest, recover, and get that nursing going strong! Part two of Theo's birth is coming soon, I promise! 


Thursday, June 23

Just One of Those Weeks...

Where I was 'done' by 9am.

Starting my own pity party.

Fussy, unhappy, and general 'pushing of the buttons.'

Teething.

Canceling fun plans because neither of us could hack it.

But then...

New life was born.

A sweet treat: Ezra's regular check-up showed he's moved from below the 5th % to over the 13% in weight {still above 75th % in height}.

And I got this delightful Nordie's package on my doorstep:

How could I still be a gloomy gussie while wearing these cheerful pair?!

The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases;
his mercies never come to an end;
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
-Lamentation 3:22-23

Praying that I remember that His mercies never end and they are new EACH and EVERY morning whether that starts at the current 6:15 or the normal 7:15...and whether I've had a crappy night's sleep {how can I be uncomfortable already?!} or a well-rested one.

Wednesday, June 15

Hanging Tent: The Saga

Unfortunately, this craft was an utter bit of an agony for me so I was happy to finally shake my hands of it. Every tutorial and the comments of whom made one said this was easy. Which was not true for the construction or gathering of materials! Or at least I made it difficult for myself.

Remember this picture? Well, I went from this...
to this...
The inside:
But the dang thing took almost TWO months to complete! Most supplies from this came from Walmart....which reminded me why I don't like shopping at Walmart. The only supplies I had to get were:
 -1 Twin flat sheet 
-Hula Hoop
 
Well, if you want to make one yourself, make sure not to get fitted sheets. Because then you'll have to go back, switch 'em out, and wait in the checkout line again. Also, try not to forget your wallet. Because they don't like to hold items for longer than 30 minutes. So, you go all the way back home, grab said wallet, and rush back. Not that I speak from experience. And last piece of advice, make sure to not buy the hula hoop filled water. Because then you'll have to make yet another trip to Walmart. Apparently, it's really hard to get just a plain ol' hula hoop these days.

So, back to the actual craft...I  used one flat sheet for the base of the tent. And scrap felt for the flags {an idea stolen from here}. The top of the tent is scraps from his bedding and fabric I got from Joann's. I just kind of meshed all the tutorials {here, here, and here} that I liked and then using some math {you know, like circumference, pi, division.. all that} to make my own. I learned I'm not quite emotionally ready to leave the safe haven of tutorials and venture on my own just yet. ;)

It started with three attempts of the top triangles before success. Math fail #1. Then I had my {then} sick hubby to help me put the top and bottom together to see how it would work. He's so sweet to indulge me.
See that big open space. Not suppose to be there. The sheet was suppose to wrap all the way around the hula hoop. Math fail #2. I had to go back to Joann's two separate times for more felt and fabric. Then one more time to get more thread {Thanks, Stef!}. Yeesh!

But it fits perfectly into his room and E loves it, thank goodness! He's still a bit young for pretend play, but loved sitting and reading with Papa. I still have to iron the thing out after all my crumpling and stashing from the months it patronized me. I also want to sew some pockets on.
 But for now, I'm just going to appreciate it hanging in his room until I can muster up some more motivation to touch the darn thing.

Break Down
Hula Hoop {$8}
Flat Sheet {$5}
Fabric and felt {$10}
Thread {$2}
Total Cost: $25

Wednesday, November 17

Certainty

Just sometimes, wouldn't it be nice to be able to buy a little certainty from Walgreen's for the low price of $19.99?
{found at the park today on a bench next to us}

This week has been one of those where some "certainty" would come in handy. We been fighting some mystery bug bites on Ezra for a few months now. Through process of elimination, online research, dr. visits, talking with others including an exterminator, we pretty sure we're dealing with fleas, but we still have no evidence other than his bites. It's been super stressful and a huge amount of effort to say the least. And it's not over yet. W has basically quarantined his room with this natural powder that kills insects. Plus we're doing lots of vacuuming and washing.

At one point, this week I freaked out and thought I had lice. Talk about overwhelmed and emotional. It just turned out to be a super dry scalp. Thank God!

And maybe its our stress transmitting to E, but he's been boycotting naps almost altogether and getting up at crazy early hours this week. What?! Adding lack of sleep to stress isn't a happy combination. Oh, and he's not wanting to nurse anymore, but bite me instead. It makes me so sad to think he's already weaning. :(

Oh, and I'm still working through that car accident and getting new health care. 

So, its been way tough dealing with this plateful and have an 11 month old. Today was our first 'normal' day in the last three days.  Although we have no certainty about how all these events will turn out, it's been a great testing of patience, perseverance, and prayer. At least our house is going to be super-duper squeaky clean after all this! 

After an awesome small group last night, talking with W, and coffee date this morning, I'm feeling much better at attacking all this. And that lovely little gift on the bench this afternoon seriously made me laugh out loud. Helped put things in perspective. I mean, things could be worst! I might actually have to buy my certainty at Walgreen's.

Thursday, June 24

Traveling Swenson Style

So we definitely learned some great things as we planned & traveled. This was our first big vacation and we still wanted to do it financially smart. The only rough patches we hit were the hour wait at the border to get back into the US, and our flight delay back to SFO due to weather; thanks, fog city! But other than that, everything went smoothly! Here are some things that helped our trip be such a big success. I should probably preface this by saying our current style of vacating because of where we are in life is more like "backpacking" than "luxury".

1) Know the laws.  I had to do lots of research and asking around because we were doing an international trip. Everyone I talked to told me Ezra needed a passport, but we were only a week out from our trip. (I booked way later than I normally do.) And we all know how loooong the passport process takes. Plus it's at least $60. I didn't really want to pay that amount for an infant. So I went onto the government travel website and found out that we only needed a birth certificate since we were driving into Canada. I drove to CC Records, paid my $20, and walked out with one. (I know! Really bad that he's been on the outside for 6 months & I'm finally getting one!)

2) Pack light. So how did we do it? Only check one bag for a family of three? Well, W & I are chronic over-packers & the oh-so-variable weather both made it a real challenge. But I channeled my minimalism by reading this post off my friend's site.  Then we basically both packed two of everything (shorts, ts, pants, shoes, etc.), but had a good supply of undies. And we rolled all our clothes. W pre-weighed the luggage just to ensure we were  safe. It also must have helped that we packed a few days in advance, so there was less mindless tossing in of extra clothes. Plus, I packed only just a few of Ezra's supplies then hit a local Target in Seattle for more diapers & wipes. On the way back there was extra room for them because he had eaten through his baby food supply. And we used a pack-n-play that the Arnolds graciously lent us.

3) All about where you stay. It was truly such a treat visiting with people we love during our vacation. We did that last summer too when we went to Indiana & Chicago . The combo really seems to work out great, perhaps its becoming a family tradition. There's just enough time to connect & enjoy each other and we make sure not to out-stay our welcome. "Gotta leave 'em wanting more!" as my mother says. Well, that and she also says, "Like fish, company starts to stink after 3 days." Anyway, with Ezra now, it's really handy to have all the needed resources right where we stay. In Whistler, we stayed at a condo that had a full kitchen and laundry service right in our place. It helped so much. So having laundry ability + our light packing = perfect amount of clothes. And we really don't like eating out or take-out a lot. This is in part why I love B&Bs so much. A delicious home-cooked breakfast served to you and you don't have to go anywhere...and typically at the same price as a 3-4 star hotel. It also helps to be centrally located. Walking is our favorite form of transportation and it's very cheap. 

4) Food. It can really eat up your money while on holiday. So we like to cut corners a bit. If it's a short trip, we'll pack an ice chest full of snacks, hard-boiled eggs & sandwiches. If we do a B&B also, we only have to worry about dinners. For this trip, we loved the access to a kitchen so we cooked breakfast each morning. On every trip we do one pizza meal. We buy the biggest one & then stretch it out for a few more meals. I love pizza for bfast (W thinks I'm crazy!) so I enjoy this tradition. Left-overs make yummy meals!

5) With a babe, bedtime is essential. Since we were out & about all day, we committed to keeping Ezra's bedtime the same. It made the whole traveling process so much easier. And since we had full access to food, entertainment, etc. at home, we didn't mind one bit. It also made our vacation that much more relaxing. I usually like to book us with lots of activities so the evenings are great wind-downs.

6) Splurge. If not, it may hurt the experience. For Chicago, it was the river tour of the city. This trip was the Peak to Peak ride. I use trip advisor and tour books to get recommended must-do lists then select one or two things that could enhance the trip because usually we'd be just as content to walk around ourselves. This makes sure we do at least one "tourist" thing while we're there & get a "big picture" experience.


So that covers some of the things we use to help us have a great vacation experience without spending too much. We also take advantage of weekdays for flying & staying in hotels. It's definitely harder to cover more ground & activities now than when it was just the two of us. But just like anything else, you adapt & change.

Oh, and we'll probably never fly United again, if we can help it. I'm sure it's fabulous for business and couple travel, but not so with families. They don't do family pre-boarding. They were very unclear about how to check carseat/stroller at the gate, so much so that three of us families were standing there very confused & frustrated. And it costs $25 to check a bag. Not my cup of tea.

What are some of your tips & tricks for travel? Care to share?

Thursday, July 17

Photo Connection


I found this sweet idea from a random blog that I came upon (and can't find since, so can't give full credit to!) It's between two distant friends who take photos as means to stay connected (& build their art form, I guess). Well, I shared with William & he thought it was such a sweet idea that we should try! We are typically in two completely different atmospheres during any given day. Me: same classroom, multiple children, constant questions & noise, limited adult interaction, followed by driving around doing some chores & keeping busy on projects I create for myself. Him: up even before the butt-crack of dawn, driving everywhere in the Bay Area & sometimes farther than that, fighting morning traffic and/or bad drivers, interesting conversations with traveling business people or vacationers, & stopping at multiple places for car or human fuel.

So in an attempt*** to collide those together because we care about what the other is doing, seeing, feeling, etc, we are exploring our artistic side through photography. Plus we get to learn more about each other's perspective! Here are the ground rules:

1. Each week we have a theme to capture--the theme is loose enough for various interpretations & such

2. We take various photos of this theme during the week--one camera handed off between each person

3. Select our favorites to start sharing by Saturday of that theme's week--we'll see if Saturday works, day may change

4. Make our personal comments, analysis & interpretation on the theme--I'm so excited to learn more about what goes on in William's analytical mind. He has a way with words that I admire! :)

We'll see how it goes. :) Our selected theme for Week One is: Circle. Good luck participants & let the clicking begin!

***And please remember that we're complete novices (I've never even taken a class) nor do we have fancy programs like Photoshop. This is the raw, unaltered deal here, folks.