May {as well as December} is kind of a big month in our home. W's and my birthdays are a week apart days wise; but he's 2 years older. This year turned out to be a weekend celebration.
Close friend and adopted sister, Linds, was visiting from Colorado for a wedding. And we got her for two nights! Such a treat since we haven't seen her since she moved back home in December. Saturday morning, we reunited with Meggs and my parents for a walk to the farmer's market. We shared some coffee and hardy laughs before meeting up with the boys.
E and his {once all local} Aunties.
From there, my parents took E for the day. W built a fire and we relaxed before I got ready for a women's tea event at our church. It was my first year going--Nat was hosting a table and she did a fabulous job!!
Morgan modeling gracious tea etiquette.
Long haired Mamas!
I dashed back home, changed, and headed out with my hubby to do some fun, kid-free activities...{well, actually, not all that different from the usual except with the pleasure of uninterrupted attention on each another}
We fed the ducks for a short bit...
Walked ever-so-slowly through
Draeger's Market, buying a few things I've needed for recipes but couldn't get at our local Safeway. Then headed to my
favorite-of-favorites store. I also walked that entire place very slowly, tried the lotion samples, handled all the merchandise, and ignored the fact that my belly is growing by trying on some clothes. Simple girl, simple needs, simple pleasures. :)
Here's happy me with 2/3 of my birthday loot. They have new monogrammed
mugs which I was all over! And I actually found several items that I could pass as maternity so I had a hard time deciding what top to get.
And I so appreciate my hubby who joyfully indulged me. Then it was off to Thor 3D.
And out for a late dinner. Definitely our latest night out in a long time, but so refreshing! It was such a delight to have some extra afternoon time to each other. For my actual birthday, we relaxed at home. We all just needed a "down day" and the weather wasn't really one for an adventure out. W brought me breakfast in bed. I napped, read, and baked. W played some worship songs on guitar since E napped through church. We enjoyed many warm fires, a walk, and some good family time.
There are moments, if I lose perspective, when I become anxious or scared about aging. I don't know if I'll panic in two years when I hit the big 3-0. I have a feeling I won't. Maybe because I didn't really have a mental checklist of requirements to accomplish by that age or a standard of looks to uphold. I think my challenge will come around 50 when my healthy parts start to fail and just not work as properly. Or I can't do the same things I once did with speed and without help. When aging brings you face to face with the simple fact of your mortal limits, that's hard. Good thing I have a few years before then. ;)
But really, I enjoy aging. I love adding years together with my husband, adding experiences with my son, and adding adventures as a family. All of those joys take time. Take years to build. I'll happily exchange some of the" pains" of aging for these precious gifts of time!
Thank you, friends and family, for making this girl feel special!